Intentions of introvert( from introvert's perspective)


About 90% of human population is socializing and extroverted .Well yes! Man is a social animal and likes to be with one of his kind.But not many would prefer someone like us. Yes !we are introverted, but still happy. Not all who you meet, treat you the same way you treat them. Some of our kind wait for others to take that first initial step ,be it in a conversation or just a hello to a stranger whatever .
Of course we guys miss upon some beautiful personality being our friends. But  we do avoid fake friendship and backstabber too. Isn't that enough to keep your life less complicated?
We think twice before we speak! Most of the time we solve the disputes following the Narsimha Rao strategy. Waiting for things to get settled in the due course of time,which doesn't mean we are less involved to be called Heartless or Emotionless creatures.
Most of times after a public talk, debate, speech or a lecture ,the first comment we would receive in a minutes time after we finish it is that " oh! you could talk! It's amazing!".
Dear friends we are not dumb creatures trying to act abnormal. Nor are we attention seekers. Just that we are not open to everyone. We have special ones to open up ,share our thoughts and seek guidance. Don't mistake us. But this is what we are! We're just one of your kind with two hands, two legs a pair of eyes to see and a mouth to speak.
(written this on introvert's point of view)

By 
Balanth

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